_____when you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure; but when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. in the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won OR who lost. what's important is you know when to hold on & when to let go. everything happens for a reason. don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know, unless you try. don't find love. let love find you. that's why it's called falling in love, kus you don't force yourself to fall. you just fall. love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. it's a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering & growing. the greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on & holding on when you need to let go. we lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more that we can love ourselves.